Well she went today.........I sold it to a trader from Middlesex. He came after lunch & we went to do the bank stuff & it drove off at around 3.15

I had been happy with the deal the dealer offered but when the sales manager made me an offer I let it go privately.
Dealer offered over the top price at £40,400 & a free swap over to remove my roof rails & fit on the next one.
I sold it for £41K leaving the roof rails on (less hastle) after seeking advice from my dealer who then said they would fit a new set for free then offered to pay 50% of the cost of the rails (as they were saving on some removal labour).
What really clinched it for me to sell privately was the sales manager told me (I knew anyway) that he was paying me more than the market price as he knew how clean etc it was but because he now hadn't got to resell it has said he will give me £1500 off my new car

Then because I said to him it was easier to trade my car with them on the day I collect my new one he said "Don't worry about that" You can have a car till yours arrives so tomorrow I am off to collect a Freelander HSE for 5 weeks which I am taking to liverpool next week as the sales department is paying for me & the family to go on a factory tour & see our new Evoque being born.
Can't really say anymore to that than I have never in my entire life had such good customer service & most of it was without me even dropping any hints!
Some of it could be that I recomended them to someone who went on to buy a demo Landrover Discovery & another customer who also baught a Discovery who wasn't happy with the way the car was presented they sent me to his house in South London to rectify/pacify the customer who then was very happy.